Laurie, I think that your MIL should be thrilled to have such a bright granddaughter! There aren't many 4yos out there who would recognize a symbol of a religion their family doesn't practice. The events surrounding Hanukkah are one of God's miracles; I certainly don't see anything wrong with Christians studying it and thanking God for this miracle. In fact, I think knowing about it can strengthen faith... but I digress!

I got Lindsey the Hanukkah accessories. They do have a little flier in them, but you'd be better off with a children's book from the library. There are several good ones, "The Story of Hanukkah," which seems to be written specifically for this purpose, and for the dog-loving Diana, there is even "Happy Hanukkah, Biscuit!" about a little dog who goes to a Hanukkah celebration.

Oh... by the way, one of my dogs ate Lindsey's dreidel!